no offense to any blogger, to each his own right... but i have to say, i feel blogging is acceptable in these types of situations....when your trying to help people out there relate.. i'm not saying this because i'm doing it--cause don't get me wrong... i'll admit, at this moment in time i am somewhat 'into myself'... just because i see how helpful it has been to my wife and our life.. she follows blogs and whatever and it has given us information and also has been an outlet to relate to so we don't feel so alone and the difficulties you go through...that's what i'm hoping to acheive-to be a friend to someone i don't know..
cc makes you a selfish person... and there are plenty of reason why you become selfish... first you receive all this attention from friends and family.. you can get pratically whatever drug you want from the doctors and hospitals (don't worry.. i dont' abuses this.. if anything I need to start asking for things so i don't suffer pointlessly.. something my wife keeps telling me to do)...youre always accomodated for, whether youre at home or at the hospital...(i know you think the hospital.. of course you are going to be accomodated for... but i've noticed a differnece between nurses who know cancer and nurses who don't... either the cancer nurses are very attentive or the other nurses don't attend to patients as much as cc patients)... youre waited on, mainly because you can't do anything most of the time.. but still it contributes to why you become selfish.. granted.. it's a warranted selfishness.. but i think if i'm not aware of it now.. i could become lazy and get used to it.. and when i'm done treatment i could have a hard time getting back to a normal persons routine... essentially it would be somewhat of a 'culture shock' when i
don't get what i ask for, or when i ask my wife hey can you get me a glass of water and she'll respond, you can get it yourself...my wife right now is in the process of reupholstering a chair, and she is taking out all these staples with a knife, so i want to pay attention to her to make sure she doesn't hurt herself....shes a bit clumsy haha
peace
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you're clumsy :P
can you tell us about why you named the blog icanparkhere?
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Just a small comment. I noticed that you mentioned you enjoyed food, as I do. Would you consider becoming a cheif after you are done with treatment?
I also think I'm going to start a blog. My friends and family think I should date more and go meet more women, I think starting a blog will motivate me to get out there.
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