tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2122418583186249337.post4730460949400425612..comments2009-10-14T02:44:26.409-04:00Nimahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03055358417282263752noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2122418583186249337.post-46721975694528158592009-10-14T02:44:26.409-04:002009-10-14T02:44:26.409-04:00shazzy pants I love you~ and you are my love!Nahal Haghbinnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2122418583186249337.post-31409452391513502932009-10-11T13:05:43.401-04:002009-10-11T13:05:43.401-04:00sending you both lots of love and prayers:O)parastunoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2122418583186249337.post-88378191559966215522009-10-08T17:47:05.328-04:002009-10-08T17:47:05.328-04:00i can&#39;t imagine your struggle, but your ability to really examine your feelings and make conscious decisions is inspiring... as is your strength! my prayers are with you both. much love!nooshinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18317780950941501799noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2122418583186249337.post-17641308476232098182009-10-07T10:19:39.715-04:002009-10-07T10:19:39.715-04:00Love you Shaz!Leilanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2122418583186249337.post-26957637440583730762009-10-06T11:28:02.585-04:002009-10-06T11:28:02.585-04:00An excellent book was written by Ken Wilbur (an integral/metaphysical philosopher &amp; writer) that includes a chapter on this topic, &quot;Grace and Grit&quot;. A friend of mine sent it to me after he learned my mother was diagnosed with cancer. It was a very moving read. He sent me this chapter: <br />[ http://www.healingjourneys.org/wp-content/uploads/wilberfinal.pdf ] <br />Ken&#39;s wife had terminal cancer and, in this excerpt, he dives into how he has dealt with a lot of the feelings you&#39;ve just articulated.Laurenhttp://lendmeyourteeth.livejournal.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2122418583186249337.post-58838082820900684162009-10-05T02:48:41.408-04:002009-10-05T02:48:41.408-04:00You&#39;re so smart. And SO right. Praying for you both!Sautchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14214656423496823242noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2122418583186249337.post-18416864787458812212009-10-05T01:59:09.373-04:002009-10-05T01:59:09.373-04:00thank you for sharing your struggle with us. so much love and support is showering the both of you, and prayers are coming : )Lindseyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00584808707770199321noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2122418583186249337.post-50498857363216006912009-10-05T01:24:28.350-04:002009-10-05T01:24:28.350-04:00You guys don&#39;t know how much you&#39;re teaching people.samanhttp://samanmaydai.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.com